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March: A Month of Transitions & Transformation

3/17/2025

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As winter thaws into spring, we’re reminded that change isn’t always easy—it can be messy, uncomfortable, and even a little scary. But here’s the thing: discomfort is where growth lives.

So often, we hold ourselves back because it feels safer to stay where we are. But if you want to grow, evolve, and truly unleash your brilliance, you need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

Think about it—every major life shift, every transformative moment, is marked by discomfort. The awkward first step. The uneasy in-between. The moments of doubt. But what lies on the other side? Strength. Confidence. Fulfillment.

💡 3 Ways to Embrace Discomfort & Grow Through It:
  1. Reframe Fear as Fuel: Fear isn’t a stop sign—it’s a signal that you’re on the brink of something meaningful. Growth doesn’t come from what’s easy; it comes from pushing your boundaries.
  2. Celebrate Small Wins: Big changes are built on tiny, consistent steps. Whether it’s having a tough conversation, setting a boundary, or simply showing up when it’s hard—every step forward counts.
  3. Lean Into What’s Working: It’s easy to focus on what’s not going right, but growth thrives where energy flows. Notice what’s working in your life right now. Double down on it. Build momentum from your strengths.

🌟 This Month’s Challenge: Get Uncomfortable.Pick one area of your life—personal, professional, or emotional—where you’ve been playing it safe. Then ask yourself:
  • What’s the next brave step I can take here?
  • What am I avoiding because it feels uncomfortable?
  • What would it look like if I did it anyway?
Now, take that step. It doesn’t have to be huge—just intentional. Because small acts of courage create lasting transformation.

This March, let discomfort be your greatest teacher. 🌱✨

Word of the Month: BRAVERY
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Bravery isn’t the absence of fear—it’s the decision to move forward despite it.

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Onboarding with Heart: Humility, Empathy, and Curiosity at the Core

9/18/2024

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Onboarding is more than a checklist of tasks—it’s the start of someone’s journey in a new role or organization. How we approach that first step sets the tone for everything that follows. Whether you're leading a team or starting a new job, integrating values like humility, empathy, and curiosity into the process can transform onboarding into a meaningful experience that fuels growth and connection.

Humility
Think about your first day at a new job. Chances are, something didn’t go exactly as planned—maybe you struggled with a new system, missed a key meeting, or fumbled through introductions. We’ve all been there. The key is turning those moments into opportunities for growth.

Creating an onboarding environment where mistakes are seen as part of the learning process helps new team members relax and focus on growth. Leaders can set the tone by sharing their own experiences of early challenges or missteps, reinforcing the idea that no one is expected to be perfect. When you lead with humility, you create a safe space for learning.

Tip: Encourage team members to share stories of their first days on the job during orientation. It helps normalize the learning curve and takes the pressure off new hires to “get it right” immediately.

Empathy
Starting a new job can be overwhelming. New tools, new processes, new faces—it’s a lot to take in. Empathy helps ease this transition. A little understanding goes a long way in making new hires feel supported, not just professionally, but emotionally.

Leaders can demonstrate empathy by checking in frequently, asking how new team members are feeling, and offering help before it's requested. This not only builds trust but also shows that you’re invested in their success and well-being.

Tip: During onboarding, create opportunities for open conversations. Ask questions like, “What’s feeling overwhelming right now?” or “Is there something you need that we haven’t provided yet?” Showing you care about their experience can make all the difference.

Curiosity
Curiosity is a powerful tool, especially during onboarding. New hires bring fresh perspectives, and encouraging them to ask questions can unlock new ideas and improvements. Instead of focusing solely on teaching “how things are done,” create a culture where curiosity and questioning are celebrated.

By fostering curiosity, you signal that new ideas are welcome, and it’s okay to challenge the status quo. This mindset not only benefits the organization but also helps new team members feel like they can contribute right away.

Tip: Encourage new hires to note any processes or practices that seem unclear or inefficient. Invite them to share their thoughts in team meetings or one-on-one check-ins. Their fresh perspective might uncover something valuable that others may have overlooked.

The Power of Human Connection
Onboarding is also about making real human connections. Whether it’s a virtual coffee or a casual team lunch, creating moments where new hires can get to know their colleagues on a personal level builds trust and camaraderie. These experiences are what truly help someone feel like they belong, beyond just knowing their role or the company policies.

Tip: Set up informal “get-to-know-you” sessions during the first week, where team members can share their hobbies, interests, or even fun facts. It breaks the ice and creates a sense of belonging from the start.

Transforming Onboarding into a Meaningful Experience
Ultimately, onboarding should be more than just a process—it’s a chance to connect, inspire, and set the stage for future success. By leading with humility, practicing empathy, and fostering curiosity, you can create an onboarding experience that’s not only effective but also deeply meaningful.
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What strategies have you found helpful in making onboarding more impactful? Let’s keep the conversation going and learn from each other as we build more inclusive and thoughtful workplaces.
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A Leader's Guide to Managing Team Emotions

8/21/2024

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Cultivating a thriving team culture
Leading teams can be incredibly rewarding, yet it comes with its unique set of challenges, particularly when it comes to managing emotions and fostering a supportive culture. As a leader, I've strived to create an open-door policy and a safe space for my team members, ensuring they feel heard and valued. However, balancing this with self-care and maintaining personal boundaries can be tough. Here’s how I navigate this complex landscape and ensure both my team and I thrive.

Building a Supportive Culture
  1. Open-Door Policy: One of the cornerstones of a supportive culture is an open-door policy. This means being available for team members to express their concerns, ideas, and feedback. It fosters transparency and trust, making team members feel valued and respected.
  2. Safe Space: Creating a safe space involves more than just being available. It's about ensuring team members feel secure in expressing their thoughts without fear of judgment or repercussions. This encourages open communication and helps in addressing issues before they escalate.
  3. Empathy and Understanding: Leading with empathy is crucial. Understanding that everyone has their unique challenges and emotions allows you to respond appropriately and provide the necessary support. It’s about being patient and offering a listening ear.
  4. Regular Check-Ins: Regular one-on-one meetings with team members can help in understanding their emotional state and workload. These check-ins can be informal, creating a relaxed atmosphere where team members feel comfortable sharing their thoughts.
  5. Encouraging Collaboration: Promote a culture of collaboration where team members support each other. This not only fosters teamwork but also creates a sense of community, reducing feelings of isolation and stress.
While it’s essential to be there for your team, it's equally important to take care of yourself. As a leader, your well-being directly impacts your ability to lead effectively. Here are some strategies I employ to maintain this balance:
  • Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries between work and personal time. This helps in preventing burnout and ensures you have time to recharge. Communicate these boundaries to your team to manage expectations.
  • Delegate Tasks: Trust your team and delegate tasks appropriately. This not only empowers team members but also reduces your workload, allowing you to focus on strategic aspects of leadership.
  • Seek Support: Just as your team looks to you for support, you should also have a support system. Whether it’s a mentor, a coach, or a peer, having someone to discuss challenges and seek advice from can be incredibly beneficial.
  • Self-Care Practices: Incorporate self-care practices into your routine. This could be anything from regular exercise, meditation, or simply taking time to pursue hobbies. These activities help in reducing stress and improving overall well-being.
  • Continuous Learning: Invest in personal and professional development. Reading books like 'Dare to Lead' by Brené Brown has been inspiring and provided valuable insights into balancing leadership and self-care. Continuous learning keeps you motivated and better equipped to handle challenges.
When implementing changes to foster a supportive culture, clear communication is vital. Here’s how I approach this:
  • Transparency: Be transparent about the changes you’re making and why they’re important. Explain how these changes will benefit the team and the overall work environment.
  • Involvement: Involve your team in the process. Seek their input and feedback, making them feel part of the change rather than just subjects of it. This increases buy-in and ensures the changes are well-received.
  • Supportive Language: Use supportive and positive language when communicating changes. Emphasize your commitment to their well-being and how the changes are aimed at creating a better work environment.
  • Reinforcement: Regularly reinforce the changes and remind the team of their importance. Acknowledge their efforts in adapting to the new culture and provide ongoing support.
Leading teams and managing emotions is a delicate balance of being available and supportive while also taking care of yourself. By fostering an open, empathetic, and collaborative culture, and maintaining clear boundaries for self-care, you can create a thriving work environment for your team and yourself. Remember, a healthy leader leads a healthy team. Your well-being is just as important as that of your team, and by taking care of yourself, you’re setting a positive example for them to follow.

This is a work in progress, and it’s not always going to be easy. Taking one small step at a time is progress, and every effort counts toward building a supportive and healthy team dynamic.
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